Thursday, March 31, 2011
fun home
As a child she was facing confusing situations. Do people know as a child that there sex choice is right verses wrong? It seems like her father knew and was doing things to test his theory. Is it safe to say that if she was shown love and affection she wouldn’t be gay at all. I don’t think it will ever be known how it is determined. Being gay now a days is being accepted and I think it was good for her parents to accept her. The parents both gave tough love to me and it seem as if they were so caught in themselves that they forgot about there children. Her and her mothers relationship wasn’t really spoken of. It was more like they lived there life but when they needed each other they were there for one another and understood each others feelings. Her and her dad seemed close. That goes along with what is said about daughters relationship with there father. It seem like the confided in each other and they had similar likes as well as opposite ones. In the book near the end the father decide to come clean with his daughter it was like finally getting the courage to say what she already knew and vise versa. There isn’t a defined right way to raise your children, nor is there a law. So to say that they were un fit parents would be wrong , the only thing that can be said is they raised them as best they could . By what was shown to them as a child and what the thought was right.
Reading this book it was confusing and it wasn’t a book I would honestly choose to read. But as I read I got some sense of understanding it and visualizing in my mind the life she lived as if it was my own .